spring
will come itself...
After so many time I am gonna writing my blog...i think i
am writing after 3 month. its quite stupidity to left writing and Reading.
whatever...but today i am writing. thats Good enough. Here i am gonna share my
Experience of Girl what happens with her when she enters in some age which we
call it is deadline age for girl to remain at home. she must be married or
Engaged with someone. Especially when she finishes study or left some academy ,
all are just think that now she should marry. very simple and stupidity of all
people. i am saying here all people because even Educated and literate people
all are at the some level thinking like Girl should marry at the age of 22 or
24. and all drama starts at home. if girl will say yes everything will be fine
to both family but if in case Girl will reject then its out of control.
Everybody only are think like she must be escape from home or she must will be
in love with somebody else. oh god ..is there no any another reason of girl to
say no to Engagement? why people are so foolish. Girls have their own identity
their own life. whatever she love or like its her choice. if she feel relaxed
in remain single then why all are thinking about her life. And to be engaged is
not easier thing at all as become literate girl. Girl will think twice or
thrice whether she engage with some one or not. she want to Introduce herself
and wanna know the person perfectly with whom she is gonna be join.
But..no...everybody has to much hard and fast and busy life.they just want to
engage..and quickly want to marry with her. what mechanism in life. There is no
space for emotions feeling or whatever which make us human being. if you will
tell something about your own point of view and will love your identity then it
will be some weakness of groom / fiance. he will definitely reject you. he will
not think about your capability but his male ego can't accept as his wife
become so much critique or talented or on powerposition. we are living in 21st
century. we have right to live in relationship. but 85% People of India still
believe that their #value #reputation is depended on Girl. people are ready to
sacrifice their inner joy but will not take risk with value. still people of
rural as well urban aria are living in 19th century. very Few people practically
supports or respects feminine and think the truth of nature that...nature has
given all their unique life and identity. people don't believe in friendship
but they believe in Relationship. there is no any matching between friendship
and Relationship. Friends becomes itself. then there is possibility of
relationship..but people directly want to build Relations. A educated ...in
real sense who is really literate will never compromise with it. it will be
great stupidity without knowing the person to be join with him. first sight
liking and forcefully to be join..has vast diffrence. society will produce only
machine and terrorist if there will be no love between two characters. all will
be very violent by nature because they are feed up by the person who don't
deserves or don't like new life but just for responsibility they full fill it.
So to make peace in country ..just start your lovely life with love not with
compromise. flower of love will blossom everywhere itself. .
